What Happened to Dating? Why So Many Men Are Walking Away From It
It feels like something has shifted in the world of dating, doesn’t it? It’s not just me; I’ve seen so many guys in my circle, and even online, express that dating just isn’t what it used to be. Some of them have even thrown in the towel altogether. What’s going on? Why are so many men stepping away from relationships and the whole dating scene? It’s complicated, but here’s my take on what’s changed and why men are starting to say, “You know what? Maybe I’m better off without this.”
The Shift from Connection to Transaction
I don’t know when exactly it happened, but at some point, dating became more about swiping than connecting. Think about it: apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge have turned the entire experience into a game of “who looks better in three photos and a bio.” It’s fast, shallow, and often leaves you wondering, “Did I just get rejected because I wasn’t witty enough in 200 characters?”
Real conversations have been replaced by emojis and one-liners. And don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing inherently bad about dating apps — they’ve helped tons of people find love — but for a lot of guys, it feels more like a lottery than an actual way to meet someone meaningful. You’re constantly competing for attention in a sea of options, and that can leave you…
